My new years keeps getting worse and worse!(long)

[quick35th]

I dont know what to do anymore. First off I got threatend by my supervisor at work. He threatend to beat my a$$ yesturday many times. I was so shocked. He owes me money for a car(the cougar I am selling) and I am trying to figure out when I was going to get payment. So I talked to his boss to find out if he was feeding me BS or not. Turns out he was. So his boss asked him about me wandering about his financial stuff and thats when he went off on me. So last night I filed a police report with the Columbus Police Department against him. So today at work his boss asked me if everything was ok between use and I said no. They did not know about him threatening me. They know now. I filed out a insident report and wrote down on the back of the paper everything that happend yesturday. He also wont give me the car back and wants to talk to his lawyer. OMG. I am going to loose my mind. I told him fine I'll talk to mine to. He was like I am not trying to threaten you but if it needs to go that far... So while this is bad enough for me it gets worse. While I was at work today I get a call from my mom to call her asap. So I'm like great my sup has got to her and she is worried sick that I am going to get myself into trouble. Nope, its even worse. I call her back and she tells me that my sister has been diagnosed with stage two skin cancer. ~~~! I just dont know what to think anymore. My whole world is turned upside down right now. Its so hard to hold back the tears for my sister in my eyes as I write this. Normally I am a very patient man but i have no patience for this BS anymore. Tonight I am going to be hell bent on getting the car back. Whether I have to take the entire police force over to his house or not I am going to get it back tonight. I just hope most importantly that my sister is going to be ok. keep her in your thoughts for me guys. I cant handle this anymore.

Shane

[Robert Kohlman]

I'm sure that you can get your car back if you do the right things. You need to pray for and support your sister and family. Skin cancer is often overlooked and that is what makes it so dangerous.

I think that you did the right thing at work. You should not be threatened or bullied. I hope that they take care of your supervisor and show him the door.

GOOD LUCK!!!

[David Neibert]

Shane,

Some days it just seems like everything goes wrong. We've all been there and it sucks. Just hang in there and be strong for your family. And please don't let your pride end up getting you hurt over a stupid car...let the police handle it.

David

[quick35th]

Thanks guys for the help. I really need it. I cant imagine how my sister is thinking and feeling right now. I know she is worried I mean, she is only 18. I just hope everything will be ok with her. I care for her dearly and would never wish this apon anyone no matter what the age. She is one of 3% of people to develope this type of cancer at her age.

Well I am pretty sure I got my old sup fired today. My worked put me with a new sup the day it happend. That was before they found out what he had done. Dont worry I am playing this really cool. I will not do something to get myself put in jail or hurt. Though this guy is a friggen lune I dont know what he is capable of. I started caring mase with me for the time being. I talked to the police again tonight and they told me to take the car this morning. My friend and I are going to call AAA and have them tow it to his house. Unfortunately my old sup knows where I live. The cops told me they can not force him to give it back to me because its a civil matter not criminal. He told me to steal it from behind his back tomarrow morning. The problem is I have no key. I can still get into it because it has keyless entry and I know the code still. I will update asap on the condition of my sister and the car situation. Again thanks for the help guys. I really apreciate it.

Shane

[BobGPz]

I hope all works out with your sister Shane. I lost my uncle this Christmas Morning from melanoma (Got it from riding around in tanks in Vietnam when the were using Agent Orange). It wasn't detected until real late stages, so he battled it for almost 3 years and it spread to his brain. Only if he would have caught this earlier...
Best wishes to your sister. The sooner it is caught, the better chances she will have.

[NorthrnSCownr]

Best of luck with your situations Shane. Try to forbear through, and keep positive thoughts in mind.
"When you pass the shady willow trees, there will be bright flowers and another village ahead" :)
Tom

[scbilly]

Hang in there Shane, things will work out. Best of luck to your Sis. Remember, be patient and stay positive and dont stoop to the level of the geek that has your car - he's wrong here. Good luck.

Bill

[White Lightning]

Listen to me man, your sister is worth EVERYTHING, I lost my older brother this time 2 yrs ago and it still feels like yesterday, she needs you man, tell her you love her do anything to help her through this, she will pull through, she's young and strong and with your faith, she'll make it, screw the car, you can take him to SMALL CLAIMS COURT and get it back later, priorities my brother priorities. Good luck to you and your mom and sister, Frank H.

[quick35th]

Thanks guys for all the support. My sister is taking this rather well and doesn't seem to be to worried. She is a very strong person and I beleive in my heart that she will pull through this. She goes into surgery tomarrow after she gets out of college. I could not remember what it was called that she had but now I remember. She has stage 2 melanoma. I can finally put all my attention into this now that my other problem has been sovled... for now. Thanks guys again!

Shane