JD,
Yes all the areas are pretty nice areas, The best areas of spring/ woodlands that you should look will be west side of I-45.....and your right the toll road would be a straight shot to where you need to go for work......
by any chance you work for BJ services, i thinks there over there...i havent really been down that way recently, If i was you i would narrow it down to spring/woodlands, they will have probably the best overall schools(if you have school aged kids)i went through the spring ISD system....its been awile but it probably as good as its going to get considering your are moving to the burbs of the 4th largest city in US.
Crime..........again, its around but where is it not?..note i have never been a victim of any crime in allmy years in this general area.
shopping....mucho around the woodlands area and nice too.
i will be home towards the end of the month if i could be of any help ill be there for about a week.
Robert